There’s nothing wrong with a bit of self-loving from time to time – or all the time, if that’s what you love! If you’re bored with your usual routine or want to maximise your big ‘O’, treat yourself to one of these hot new positions tonight.
Top 5 positions for the best solo ‘O’
1. Under the nozzle
If you haven’t yet felt the orgasmic effects of a jet of water, you’ve been missing out. Use a detachable showerhead or position yourself under the flow of water to feel the sensation of the water rushing over your vagina. Water restrictions real though, so make this an occasional (and brief!) indulgence.
2. The opposite-hand trick
Want to feel like you’re hooking up with a stranger? Try using your other hand to pleasure yourself. It’ll feel unusual and exotic, ramping up the excitement factor for yourself and, quite possibly, rubbing you up in a whole new way.
3. Roll over
Try lying on your tummy for a change. Reach around and touch yourself from behind, so your wrist is lying over your butt and your fingers can reach your clitoris. Make sure your face is pressed into a pillow to muffle those moans!
4. Double up
Use one finger to rub your clitoris – circles work amazingly here – and with your other hand, use one finger to circle the entrance of your vagina. This takes a little skill: Your lower hand will need to circle a little slower than the hand rubbing your clit, and getting your two hands to work at different paces can be tricky. The results though? Oh-so worth it!
5. Over the top
Instead of taking your underwear off, rub yourself through your panties. Call to mind your hottest fantasy, like being in a place where you aren’t supposed to be getting down and dirty, and enjoy the feeling of the fabric creating extra friction against your clit. Ooooh, girl!
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